PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Social Phobia

"Dear Rob and Glei,

"Thank you very much for guiding me on the way to my true nature. In just a few days working with you, you two have left me with an unforgettable impression... your professional ethics: the kindness, loving and caring... Those things I have learned so much from you will help in my own career in the future, no matter what it is. I deeply wish you two all the best..."

— Frank P., Ontario, Canada

12-MONTH FOLLOW-UP EMAIL:

"Dear Dr. Mantell.

"This Christmas celebrates one year ago that I was in Glendale [,CA]. I still remember as if it were yesterday. I found my true nature since then.

"Thank you so much. I wish you and Glei good health and every happiness!"

22-MONTH FOLLOW-UP EMAIL:

"Hi, Dr. Mantell!

"How are you and Glei doing? I am doing really, really well! ...My business is growing, and I know that in 2 or 3 years I will be able to travel around the world, building my business... I love that freedom!

"I am a totally different guy now with much self-confidence. Now I am focusing on personal development because my business grows equally with my personal growth. When I look back, I am so glad that I made the decision to go to Los Angeles. Those days started transforming my life, and you are the ones who started that process. Once again, thank you very much!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Post-Traumatic Stress (PTSD) and Survivor Guilt

"...After having returned from Operation Enduring Freedom, I couldn't believe how torn up I was feeling. I kept on having flashbacks of the things I'd seen and experienced while in Afghanistan, and I couldn't sleep most nights because of the guilt I was also feeling. The nightmares were terrible. The VA was just totally unable to help me, and I was feeling desperate.

"When Dr. Mantell told me he could completely rid me of these nightmares and flashbacks in less than a week, it honestly seemed way too good to be true. A week!!

"But miraculously, within just a few days of working with him, I could hardly feel my old symptoms anymore... The flashbacks stopped after THE VERY FIRST DAY with him!

"I'm now completely free of the nightmares, and understand things much better now, so that the guilt's not a problem for me anymore either.

"Thank you, BrightLife... I don't know what I would have done if I hadn't found you."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Panic Attacks, Agoraphobia and Low Self-Esteem

"Hey, Robert,

"You're not going to believe the progress! I'm so happy! Everyday is a new day with a new life, a life without worrying and negativity. No more 'Am I crazy?' No more 'Will I ever blah blah blah?' No more. Instead, I'm shopping with friends, and I've been running 3 miles a day, 4 days a week. Straight A's in school because I'm able to concentrate now instead of worring about whether or not I'll have a panic attack.

"YOU DID THIS... No matter what you say. You should be happy to know that you have found your path in life, and it's a good one. I don't take anything for granted at all... Even the rain is beautiful! You saved my life; I want you to know that. Thank you with all of my soul. THANK YOU! There's a place in heaven for people like yourself. :)"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Obsessive Thinking and Worrying (OCD)

"Dear Robert and Glei,

"I wanted to let you know how much my life has changed during and since my visit to BrightLife. I came to you because I experienced constant anticipatory anxiety, along with obsessive thoughts and panic attacks (some of which started in early childhood).

"During our first session, I began to realize that I was totally in control of my life and have always had choices. Instead of living my life like a "leaf blowing in the wind", I decided how I want to live my life and what path I choose to take.

"When I came back home and stepped off the airplane, my husband said that he could see an immediate change in me. I was glowing! Of course, I felt it, but was surprised that it was so outwardly obvious to him.

"When I was younger, I was energetic, loved to laugh, and saw the humor in many things. Somewhere down the road, I lost that zest for life, and constantly felt the weight of my "problems" weighing me down. I became depressed and blamed the world for handing me such a bum rap. I felt that I would have to live this way the rest of my life.

"This is no longer the case. I now feel like I did when I was a young teen, smiling and laughing and allowing myself to sometimes just be silly! The anticipatory anxiety, panic attacks and obsessive thoughts are gone. I feel free!!!

"Robert and Glei, you are truly inspirations for others. You offer a different kind of option for living life. It was a comfort and pleasure to be in your company, and experience firsthand how truly dedicated you are to each other and your beliefs. You know the old saying, 'If you talk the talk, you gotta walk the walk.' You guys definitely 'walk the walk' and I am blessed to have met both of you."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Situational Anxiety

"Dear Robert,

"I thank you, Robert Mantell, ever so much for all that you've done for me, my life and my sense of being. Prior to meeting you my soul and mind had become a complete entanglement resulting in a living nightmare. Phobias and anxiety had so overwhelmed my life, that their detrimental effects were beginning to carry over and affect not only my social life and intimate aspects of my marriage, but to my career as well. I attempted to conquer this at any means within my disposal, including hypnosis, medical and psychiatric doctors, and of course medication. However or whatever the means, the result remained the same…only minimal results for a limited time. I soon came to dread waking in the morning for fear of facing another day of inner turmoil.

"Then one day... I was searching the Internet for information regarding my plight. I came across a web page for BrightLife, and enter into my life, Robert Mantell.

"With your advice and training and my effort, I soon began to "relearn" my ways of thinking. This precipitated the reigning control and stepping forth of my life with a profoundly positive mentality. My social life has been exhilarated to its previous level. My marriage has attained a new spiritual enhancement. And my work, which I love dearly, has only increased in enjoyment.

"If all of this weren't enough, the genuine sense of caring and the thoughtfulness of being there and seeing me through to the end, made this stepping stone in my life an event that can only help me grow and become a stronger and better person.

"It is my belief that all persons were put here on this earth for specific purposes. I believe one of yours was to help me. Thank you, Robert. "You the Man"!

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Fear of Flying, Fear of Elevators, Panic Attacks & Agoraphobia

"Dear Rob,

"I just wanted you to know how much I have appreciated the time and energy you have given me. I feel that meeting you has truly changed my life, and I am truly lucky to have found you. I have been working on all of the things which we discussed, and I am very excited.

"I actually had a fabulous realization today which I hope will be helpful in achieving my long term goals. I have realized that realistically there is no reason for me to be afraid of the things that I was afraid of. It almost feels ridiculous!

"I think you have an extraordinary gift, and you are very good at transferring your knowledge to others. I hope that through my volunteer work, I can make you proud, and pass on a little of the knowledge you have shared with me in hopes that at least one child will benefit."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Social Anxiety and Shy Bladder Syndrome

"I went to BrightLife seeking assistance with a specific anxiety and came away with much more. I learned new ways to approach my fears, and regained a sense of positive expectation which had been lost for some time. BrightLife gives you the tools to reclaim your life... It's up to you to choose to do it."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Obsessive-Compulsive Behaviors (OCD) and Post-Traumatic Stress

"Rob,

"I think you've opened my eyes to some intuitive feelings that I've always had yet never nurtured before now. I admire the passion with which you seem to live your life and your work. It is comforting and hopeful to know that there are people out there who believe in possibilities... that there are people who step out of mediocrity to rise above the common pool of negativity within which so many people reside. Your work is meaningful, and it is my dream to find a media through which I can touch lives and offer the same message of hope for others. I thank you for what you've fostered in me.

"You are a man of character, but more importantly you are a man driven by the truest and kindest intentions of your heart. Thank you for touching my life..."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Chronic Anger and Depression

"I never would have made such a turn-around in my life if not for BrightLife. I was, in the past, depressed to where I didn't want to be with my kids or my husband. I was getting very mean and angry, and didn't know why I hated life so bad.

"A friend [who had been to BrightLife] told me about Robert — I saw such a change in [my friend] that I got in my car drove from Las Vegas to Los Angeles! Robert's great! With the tools and language and visualization I've been doing, and all the new thought processes I've been learning, I feel like life is wonderful and filled with so much gratitude and joy. It's so amazing! I feel great... I can go out and be among people and feel good about myself. I have the desire to enjoy the rest of my life and teach my kids the same. I am so grateful for the tools I now have..."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Social Anxiety and Shy Bladder Syndrome

"Dear Robert,

"I just wanted to thank you for the insight and freedom I'm feeling today. It's amazing what focus and drive I have for life! The tools you have given me opened my mind to accomplish anything I desire. Your guidance and understanding is truly a gift. My life has just begun as I continue to learn and transform my future. 'Life Is Good'!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Performance Anxiety

"Robert,

"It doesn't seem possible, but in just six days you gave me the tools to overcome my problem and change my life! Nothing else I have tried, from medication to therapy works — but this does. I wish I had found you a long time ago... Thank you!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Social Phobia and Low Self-Esteem

"Dear Robert,

"Weeks before my trip to see you, I was excited; days before, I was nervous and unsure because nothing else had ever helped me. And within a few sessions, my depression lifted, and my outlook turned from negative to positive. I now can and am pursuing — and will obtain — the things I used to just wish for in all areas of my life. And just knowing I can makes all the difference! Robert, thank you again..."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Anxiety, Depression, Low Self-Esteem and Insomnia

"Robert,

"Thank you so much for giving me my son back. To tell the truth, I have never seen Jonathan more relaxed, self-confident, fun-loving, involved, and connected with life. You have shown him how to break the shell of darkness that enveloped him. Now he shines like a radiant new sun. I know this is just the beginning of a lifetime of growth and continual self-evaluation. Twice under intense stress, Jonathan stopped himself and centered using some form of self-talk and went on to complete his task without anger or frustration. He is reading the books you assigned and others. You have shown him he holds the key to his own prison door, and he has freed himself and is rejoicing in the light. At my party, he was dancing, laughing, flirting with the girls, helping out, etc., etc., etc. The last party he was at with me (his cousin's wedding), he spoke to no one, sat with his head down on the table, left the party early, and went out and got drunk; wasn't long after he threatened suicide. Jonathan and I have never talked about the sessions — I told him this was his journey and if he wanted or needed to share, he could, but otherwise it was his personal business. All I know is in 6 short sessions, you gave him back his life. I congratulate you; BrightLife is all you guarantee it will be. My deepest thanks."

5-MONTH FOLLOW-UP EMAIL:

"Robert,

"After seeing my son Jonathan during the Thanksgiving break, I wanted to thank you again. He was laughing, talking, playing with his cousin's baby. He's relaxed and enjoying life. He also confided in me that he'd had a long heart-to-heart with his father (on your recommendation) that had helped them both clarify a lot of issues. We walked and talked and cried and laughed for almost two hours as he shared with me feelings he has never revealed to me before. At one point he thanked me for saving his life. I was too busy crying and hugging him to say what I was thinking — that it was you (and his determination) that saved his life. So I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciated what you've done for Jonathan. He's a great guy who deserved to live a full and rich life. I don't know how you helped him exorcise his demons, but they seem to be gone. Thank you so very much."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Social Phobia and Low Self-Esteem

"Robert is to me what Phil Jackson is to the Lakers... I had a serious battle with shyness. In seven short sessions, I eliminated literally twenty-plus years of anxiety and self-doubt. Through a well-defined set of plans, he has taught me that life truly is good. I have done a 180-degree turn around! I am outgoing, and gravitate towards social interaction. Thank you, Robert... You were essential in manifesting this change in me. I am forever grateful!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Panic Attacks and Low Self-Esteem

"I know now that I can do anything I set my mind to do! I now have faith in myself in everything that I do. I realize that I have the ability to go from a negative standpoint to a positive standpoint, just in the words I choose to use and by looking at things from a different perspective. What I learned at BrightLife are techniques that I will be able to use for a lifetime. Thank you very much... It was well worth the trip!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Post-Traumatic Stress (PTSD) and Generalized Anxiety

"Rob and Glei,

"Going through your program was probably one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life. Prior to attending, I suffered from a variety of phobias and had constant anxiety. Within a week of attending, I saw dramatic results and was on my way back to having a normal life.

"In addition to helping me cope with my anxiety, you helped me find something I had forgotten so long ago. You helped me realize I was in control, and gave me cutting-edge knowledge on how the human mind works. Armed with this knowledge, I can now dismantle the negative thought processes that imprisoned my mind, and at last live free.

"It's sad that so many people should suffer for a lack of knowledge to free their minds from their own fears; my only hope is that BrightLife can help others as it has helped me. Thank you, BrightLife!"

— William R., Los Angeles, CA

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Panic Attacks and Low Self-Esteem

"Dear Robert,

"I want to thank you for doing your job so well! I felt you really cared about the service you provide. The energy you project is amazing.

"After many years of having anxiety/phobias, the techniques and tools you taught me have been the most valuable in assisting me. As you know I suffered with panic attacks for over 20 years. I have seen many psychiatrists and been through all kinds of therapies such as biofeedback, EMDR, tapes, etc. Although I do believe these therapies are useful, none of them were as effective as your program for me. Your program, I feel is fast, efficient and leaves us with tools for a lifetime. I highly recommend your program!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Social Phobia and Panic Attacks

"Before attending BrightLife's program, I had a challenge with panic attacks when I was around people. I became extremely nervous when meeting people for the first time, and completely fell apart when I attempted to speak publicly. I learned that my panicky, nervous and fearful feelings could not only be helped, but totally be wiped away completely, and [be] replaced with amazing confidence!

"Now, my whole life has changed, or I should rather say has now begun. I feel so much confidence and a feeling that I can do anything I put my mind to with no fear—none. I do not get nervous at all when around people.

"I cannot say enough how this has changed my life... This program did not only change my life, it gave it back to me!"

6-MONTH FOLLOW-UP NOTE:

"Robert,

"Thanks for everything you have done... Things are going great! Just to let you know, [I've had] not one panic attack returning home, after taking your course. ...To this day, things are 100% better. Thanks for your help!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Lack of Vision and Direction for The Future

"I admit I had a certain amount of skepticism when beginning the program, but I was desperate for a change. I had tried conventional therapy, but felt it could only affect my outward appearance by giving me coping mechanisms... I wanted to change how I felt inside. I can say that after seven sessions, I'm a completely different person, much happier with myself, and excited about life!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Social Phobia

"I feel like I have a second chance at living life to the fullest by feeling confident and just feeling good about myself and life in general. [This program] has turned my life around 360 degrees, and I feel that I am ready to proceed with my life in a positive way... I am ready to take on any challenge presented to me!

"Thank you, BrightLife... Life is good!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Low Self-Esteem and Fear of Public Speaking

"When I began the program, my anxiety level was extremely high, both in social situations and situations which required me to speak in public. I had my first panic attack when I was 13, and experienced several more since then. I had tried all kinds of therapy, and nothing seemed to rid me of the problem. This is why I am so amazed by the program at BrightLife! I never thought this change would be possible, but in one week, I was given so many valuable resources that I now feel confident and excited to be in those situations which, at one time, were a problem.

"I encourage everyone to try this program — it truly helped me. Thanks so much!!!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Lack of Vision and Direction for The Future

"BrightLife has totally changed my life from a negative experience to looking forward to a bright future, and the tools to accomplish anything I choose. I had so many things that held me back from enjoying my life, and BrightLife has opened the door.

"Thank you, BrightLife!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Low Self-Esteem and Resulting Poor Decision-Making

"After experiencing severe panic attacks, I had a choice to use prescription drugs or find an alternative source to change my life within myself. With BrightLife's help, my panic attacks no longer exist, and they have shown me that I have the power of choice in this life!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Low Self-Esteem and Resulting Fear of Rejection

"I came to BrightLife because all of my life, I had felt very alone and felt under everybody else. I had always longed for social interaction and relational intimacy, but didn't feel worth it.

"On the third or fourth session, Robert helped me explore my past and reasons I may have felt this way during childhood. It was such an emotional release for me to do this, and I was able to see myself in a new light afterwards.

"Now I realize that the way I feel in life is my choice. Robert has given me many tools to continue this work, and it feels awesome to not have to be a 'victim' anymore... I can now look at the future with a sense of excitement and confidence!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Anger, Hurt and Lack of Trust in Others

"I came to BrightLife to learn more about myself and my disempowering behaviors... I found out that I had a core belief that I was "not good enough". Most of my decisions were being chosen as extensions of the belief...

"On the third day of the program, I had a breakthrough and actually installed a very empowering belief instead: "I am good enough to deserve anything I choose." The new belief is very vivid and conscious, as well as unconscious. I began to make new empowering choices right away based on my new belief of who I am.

"I am thankful that I made the commitment to myself and my life to go to LA and do the program. I am worth it! Thanks, Robert, for your kindness and patience, and your skill."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Panic Attacks

"Last year October I contacted you regarding extreme anxiety attacks. And you told me some important information that has helped me overcome my fears...

"... I have to say my life feels great! I have since returned to college and have started on a second degree and career and I am pleased and very thankful that you had been a part of my recovery process. I am just writing to say thank you!"

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Social Anxiety and Fear of Public Speaking

"Robert poured his heart and soul into helping me free myself from the private hell of fear that I created decades ago. I now realize that I'm in charge of my own destiny and it is I who will decide how my movie will end."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Generalized Anxiety, Relationship Conflicts and Lack of Personal Assertiveness

"My life was full of anxiety and stress... I was unsure of myself and my decisions. Not wanting to depend on medications, and live like that any longer, I decided to try BrightLife at the request of a family member.

"My life has changed in one week... I hardly remember my old problem! I am confident, and sure of my ability to make resourceful decisions. I have a new passion and excitement for life... I believe anyone fully committed to changing themselves for the better must do this."

PRESENTING CHALLENGE: Panic Attacks and Agoraphobia

"I came to BrightLife after suffering from panic attacks for over 13 years. I would become housebound at times, and lost interest in everything. I've tried traditional counseling, EMDR, acupuncture, medications and naturopathic medicine. After only four days with Robert, I feel I have gotten my life back. I'm free of the anxiety I constantly felt, and am excited about life! I'm in charge of my life now... What a wonderful feeling!